>teenage actress’s private nudes get leaked
>teenage actress is reviled as a slut and a whore and a bad role model
>james franco asks a seventeen-year-old girl if he can meet her in a private hotel room
>james franco gets to go on saturday night live and joke about what a silly doofus he is for soliciting sex from a girl literally half his age
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You look healthy.
And by that I don’t mean you look fat.
I mean your face isn’t grey any more, the circles under your eyes aren’t so dark. Your lips aren’t cracked and dry and your hair isn’t thinning and brittle. I mean you seem more focused when I talk to you, You actually look at me and listen rather than being so unable to stay still or think about anything other than your illness that your eyes dart around the room and you nod manically the whole time I’m speaking. You seem calmer, stiller, quieter. You’re easier to have a joke with and you take things on board much more than you used to.
I mean you laugh now, you’re less serious. There’s life about you, it’s in your eyes and your smile, it’s in the way you speak and even in the way you go about your daily tasks.
You look healthy. You look happy. It really, really suits you.”
I AM ANSWERING THIS UNDER THE PRESUMPTION THAT YOU ARE A WOMAN WITH A VAGINA AND CLITORIS.
Don’t be too upset about it, its a difficult thing for lots of people. What I’ve found is that the more you think about it, the more pressure you put on yourself (and your partners) to have one, the more likely you will end up frustrated and disappointed.
I unfortunately don’t have any resources at hand that I can offer for masturbation tips, clitoral stimulation, vaginal stimulation, etc so I feel as though my advice will be a little bit useless to you.
My suggestion is to Google tips on how to masturbate using your hands and fingers; study up on sensitive spots, techniques, and so on. I’m serious! Google is very helpful. Find a legitimate safe-sex and sex positive website and look for help there.
My personal tips are below:
I would also consider buying toys like dildos and vibratos, maybe some stimulating lubricant (the cool thing is that toys + lube can be used personally or with a partner!) and explore your nether regions with them. If you’ve got a removable shower-head then I’d hop in the tub, get cozy, turn up the heat a little for extra sensitivity, and go to town.
Have fun with your orgasm, don’t make it a task that you need to accomplish. An orgasm is something that comes when you’re comfortable and turned on, not so much when you’re stressed and impatient.
I think its also important to get in touch with your libido and explore your body on a more intimate level. Stay in bed a little longer and close your eyes; imagine scenarios, sexual acts, and/or sexual partners that turn you on. Don’t be afraid to go off on tangents and explore your sexuality. Its your imagination! Don’t be afraid to read/watch/listen to porn. Make time throughout your days to have quality time with yourself where you can fall into a state of ~sexual zen~ during which time your mind can go off.
Do this a few times a week, couple it with the physical exploration of your own body with your own hands. You don’t need to touch yourself with the intent to orgasm; its okay just to play with your anatomy for the sake of exploration, quelling curiosity, learning how you feel, smell, or taste.
Once you’re more comfortable with yourself, when you know how your body feels, when you know how to maneuver your hands/fingers/toys, I think you might find it easier to come to the point of orgasm. It takes practice, just as anything else.
Personal quality time is very important! When you’re more used to having orgasms with yourself then it may come easier or more naturally with your partner(s). I’m not sure that this is helping at all.
Don’t stress it, my darling! Don’t put unnecessary pressure on yourself to preform. There is nothing wrong with you, it just takes time. I know women who have had their first orgasms in their 20s when, comparatively, mine was at the age of 12 or so. There is nothing wrong with not being able to orgasm. It comes with comfort, knowledge of the self, exploration, and a good and honest relationship with your libido.
I wish you the best of luck in your personal exploration and sexual endeavors.
PSA: IF SOMEBODY ASKS YOU TO STOP TOUCHING THEM IN ANY WAY, EVEN IF YOU TWO ARE FRIENDS, YOU HAVE TO STOP TOUCHING THEM.
when girls press their whole body against you when they hug, it means they like you a lot. also, they’re measuring your body to determine how long it will take them to eat your flesh, a technique shared by boa constrictors
as a girl, I can confirm this is 100% true
oh my god I’m so sick of the Miley Cyrus conversation ok
Miley isn’t a feminist icon because she uses black women as accessories, is culturally appropriative, objectifies black women, uses slurs, and hasn’t apologized for any of it. NOT because she dresses scandalously or expresses her sexuality.
Stop ignoring racism in the name of sexual politics.
Feminist “icons” are not feminist icons if they contribute to the marginalization of women. End of debate. Bye.
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